solved please answer these questions by using Chapter 4,5 and 6

please answer these questions by using Chapter 4,5 and 6 Page 88-205 of “The Relationship Cure by John Gottman Chapter 4 1. What does the commander expect from his group? 2. Why is it important to know about the command systems? 3. What are the 7 emotional command systems? 4. How do the command systems affect you? 5. How are males and females different in command systems? 6. How can you evaluate your own command system? 7. How are you different from others (friends and family) in the way you use your emotional command systems? 8. What is an example of using a command system in your life? Chapter 5 1. How does emotional heritage affect your life? 2. How does your past affect current relationships? 3. How can family philosophy affect feelings and beliefs? 4. What is emotion coaching family? 5. Why do people dismiss negative emotions? 6. What is the effect of emotion-disapproving in your life? 7. What problems do people from a laissez-faire family have? 8. Why are emotional-coaching families more successful than others? 9. What are enduring vulnerabilities? 10. What happens when you understand your own vulnerabilities? Chapter 6 1. What is important for emotional communication? 2. What does the writer mean when he says feeling “leak”? 3. What are the four points by which we can improve our ability to read feelings through facial expression? 4. How can you express affiliation with a person to who you are talking to with movement and gestures? 5. What are the three important parts of voice you need to pay attention to? 6. Why is it important to put your feelings into words? 7. Compare the metaphors “time is money” and “time is a river”. How can they change your feelings about time?